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Optimism Seriously Increases Longevity!

Here's how to be more optimistic (without self-delusion!)

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The 10almonds Team
April 09, 2023

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Today’s Key Learnings:

Flying by? Here are some key take-away ideas from today’s newsletter:

  • Optimism significantly reduces all-cause mortality (even when many other factors, including health-related and socio-economic, are controlled for)

    • When the world is ridiculous and unpredictable, optimism starts between your ears

    • That includes how you talk about yourself

    • An important habit to make is also treating your future self with love and care, by means of your present self’s actions

  • Biological aging appears to be reversed with a methylation-supportive diet and lifestyle program

Read on to learn about these things and more


👀 WATCH AND LEARN

The Fix For a "Boring Life" - Sei Shonagen - The Pillow Book

Sometimes life is not thrilling, and while that can be a good thing, it doesn’t always feel that way. In this short (3:30) video, we learn how to rediscover what we most need:

❀‍đŸ©č MAIN FEATURE

Always look on the bright side for life

❝I’m not a pessimist; I’m a realist!❞

~ every pessimist ever

To believe self-reports, the world is divided between optimists and realists. But how does your outlook measure up, really?

Below, we’ve included a link to a test, and like most free online tests, this is offered “as-is” with the usual caveats about not being a clinical diagnostic tool, this one actually has a fair amount of scientific weight behind it:

❝Empirical testing has indicated the validity of the Optimism Pessimism Instrument as published in the scientific journal Current Psychology: Research and Reviews.

The IDRlabs Optimism/Pessimism Test (IDR-OPT) was developed by IDRlabs. The IDR-OPT is based on the Optimism/Pessimism Instrument (OPI) developed by Dr. William Dember, Dr. Stephanie Martin, Dr. Mary Hummer, Dr. Steven Howe, and Dr. Richard Melton, at the University of Cincinnati.❞

How did you score? And what could you do to improve on that score?

We said before that we’d do a main feature on this sometime, and today’s the day! Fits with the theme of Easter too, as for those who observe, this is a time for a celebration of hope, new beginnings, and life stepping out of the shadows.

On which note, before we go any further, let’s look at a very big “why” of optimism


There have been many studies done regards optimism and health, and they generally come to the same conclusion: optimism is simply good for the health.

Here’s an example. It’s a longitudinal study, and it followed 121,700 women (what a sample size!) for eight years. It controlled for all kinds of other lifestyle factors (especially smoking, drinking, diet, and exercise habits, as well as pre-existing medical conditions), so this wasn’t a case of “people who are healthy are more optimistic as a result. And, in the researchers’ own words


❝We found strong and statistically significant associations of increasing levels of optimism with decreasing risks of mortality, including mortality due each major cause of death, such as cancer, heart disease, stroke, respiratory disease, and infection.

Importantly, findings were maintained after close control for potential confounding factors, including sociodemographic characteristics and depression❞

So that’s the why. Now for the how


Positive thinking is not what you think it is

A lot of people think of “think positive thoughts” as a very wishy-washy platitude, but positive thinking isn’t about ignoring what’s wrong, or burying every negative emotion.

Rather, it is taking advantage of the basic CBT, DBT, and, for that matter, NLP principles:

  • Our feelings are driven by our thoughts

  • Our thoughts can be changed by how we frame things

This is a lot like the idea that “there’s not such thing as bad weather; only the wrong clothes”. Clearly written by someone who’s never been in a hurricane, but by and large, the principle stands true.

For example


  • Most problems can be reframed as opportunities

  • Replace “I have to
” with “I get to
”

  • Will the task be arduous? It’ll be all the better looking back on it.

  • Did you fail abjectly? Be proud that you lived true to your values anyway.

A lot of this is about focusing on what you can control. If you live your life by your values (first figure out what they are, if you haven’t already), then that will become a reassuring thing that you can always count on, no matter what.

Practice positive self-talk (eliminate the negative)

We often learn, usually as children, to be self deprecatory so as to not appear immodest. While modesty certainly has its place, we don’t have to trash ourselves to do that!

There are various approaches to this, for example:

  • Replacing a self-criticism (whether it was true or not) with a neutral or positive statement that you know is true. “I suck at xyz” is just putting yourself down, “Xyz is a challenge for me” asks the question, how will you rise to it?

  • Replacing a self-criticism with irony. It doesn’t matter how dripping with sarcasm your inner voice is, the words will still be better. “Glamorous as ever!” after accidentally putting mascara in your eye. “So elegant and graceful!” after walking into furniture. And so on.

Practice radical acceptance

This evokes the “optimistic nihilism” approach to life. It’s perhaps not best in all scenarios, but if you’re consciously and rationally pretty sure something is going to be terrible (and/or know it’s completely outside of your control), acknowledging that possibility (or even, likelihood) cheerfully. Borrowing from the last tip, this can be done with as much irony as you find necessary. For example:

Facing a surgery the recovery from which you know categorically will be very painful: with a big smile “Yep, I am going to be in a lot of pain, so that’s going to be fun!” (fun fact: psychological misery will not make the physical pain any less painful, so you might as well see the funny side) ← see link for additional benefits laughter can add to health-related quality of life)

Plan for the future with love

You know the whole “planting trees in whose shade you’ll never sit”, thing, but: actually for yourself too. Plan (and act!) now, out of love and compassion for your future self.

Simple example: preparing (or semi-preparing, if appropriate) breakfast for yourself the night before, when you know in the morning you’ll be tired, hungry, and/or pressed for time. You’ll wake up, remember that you did that, and


Tip: at moments like that, take a moment to think “Thanks, past me”. (Or call yourself by your name, whatever works for you. For example I, your writer here, might say to myself “Thanks, past Nastja!”)

This helps to build a habit of gratitude for your past self and love for your future self.

This goes for little things like the above, but it also goes for things whereby there’s much longer-term delayed gratification, such as:

  • Healthy lifestyle changes (usually these see slow, cumulative progress)

  • Good financial strategies (usually these see slow, cumulative progress)

  • Long educational courses (usually these see slow, cumulative progress)

Basically: pay it forward to your future self, and thank yourself later!

Some quick ideas of systems and apps that go hard on the “long slow cumulative progress” approach that you can look back on with pride:

  • Noom—nutritional program with a psychology-based approach to help you attain and maintain your goals, long term

  • You Need A Budget—we’ve recommended it before and we’ll recommend it again. This is so good. If you click through, you can see a short explanation of what makes it so different to other budgeting apps.

  • Duolingo—the famously persistence-motivational language learning app

🌎 AROUND THE WEB

What’s happening in the health world


More to come tomorrow!

📖 ONE-MINUTE BOOK REVIEW

Surviving with Beans And Rice - by Eliza Whool

If you'd like to be well-set the next time a crisis shuts down supply lines, this is one of those books you'll want to have read.

Superficially, "have in a large quantity of dried beans and rice" is good advice, but obvious. Why a book?

Whool gives a lot of advice on keeping your nutrition balanced while subsisting on the same quite few ingredients, which is handy.

More than that, she offers 100 recipes using the ingredients that will be in your long-term pantry. That's over three months without repeating a meal! And if you don't think rice and beans can be tasty and exciting and varied, then most of the chefs of the Global South might want to have a word about that.

Anyway, we're not here to sell you rice and beans (we're just enthusiastic and correct). What we are here to do is to give you a fair overview of this book.

The recipes are just-the-recipes, very simple clear instructions, one two-page spread per recipe. Most of the book is devoted to these. As a quick note, it does cover making things gluten-free if necessary, and other similar adjustments for medical reasons.

The planning-and-storage section of the book is helpful too though, especially as it covers common mistakes to avoid.

Bottom line: this is a great book, and remember what we said about doing the things now that future you will thank you for!

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Wishing you a life that it’s easy to be optimistic about,

The 10almonds Team